Tuesday, July 10, 2007

some people are just mean

Well yesterday I went down to my MIL house to drop off my hubby's grandma's AVON order that she had. So when I was down there we were chatting about a friend of mine named Sam who thinks that she might be pregnant .

Kyle's grandma pops off and say " so when are you and kyle going to have another one." well we have decided not to tell his family until we are pregnant and then if the have problem then oh well. They can't say anything about it. Well I told her that we were going to wait a while and kyle's sister cherish pops off and says " well in the world of Kandy and Kyle waiting a while is only like a month or two." and she was really mean about it.

Now she and her hubby have been trying for 5 years to have kids and she has had two miscarriages and every time that I have been pregnant she acts like I am a awful person because I don't have any problems getting or staying pregnant. She has weak eggs and can't seem to stay pregnant and she gets mad if anyone mentions someone else being pregnant. They really want kids but sometimes they don't act like it. They are in the process of trying to adopt. I wish them all the luck in the world.

I know it is a little soon to be trying to have another baby. But that is what we want to do. Gabe was 9 months old when I got pregnant with Shelby. He was 19 months old when she was born. So if I get pregnant in the next few months she won't be much older then that when the baby is born.

I just don't see why other people care what we do in our family. If it is what makes us happy then they should be happy for us.

2 comments:

Tiffany said...

Everyone is always going to have something to say. If you wait, then you have waited too long...If you get preg. Right away, then its too soon. If you dont want anymore someone will find a reason to be mad about that too. People need to get a hobby and stop making others feel bad. Sorry they made you feel bad. If your happy in your decision to TTC, then I wish you all the luck and Im happy for you!

Laura McIntyre said...

I can kinda understand where she is coming from , it must be so hard to watch other get pregnant while she struggles - that being said its not your fault and you cannot be expected to hold back because of what other people think. Good luck on the TTC