This is the dictionary's definition of forgiveness.....
for·give·ness:The act of forgiving; pardon.
Well mine idea of it is to give some one a second chance to fix what they did to you and make it better. I have had alot of people hurt me in many different ways over the years and months in the past. But that is the past and keeping a gourd isn't' going to make me a better person. I have been doing alot of thinking in the past few days and have decided to forgive and forget those who have done me wrong and hurt me. Werther it be a friend who said hurtful things or an ex boyfriend out hurt me in some way or another. A family member who left and said hurtful things to me. Or most of all a family member who did unspeakable things to me.
Over the years and months these things have changed my life and made me in the a better person because of all of it. I am a stronger person.
I forgive you all ever one of you. And my God forgive you when you ask for it.
Friday, October 26, 2007
Forgiven those who have done me wrong or hurt me in the past
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Thursday, October 25, 2007
Friday Fill in #43
1. The last good thing that came in the mail was __New bank cards_____ .
2. This week I'm grateful for _for family____.
3. _Chocolate Cake ____ is the most delicious thing ever.
4. __My kids___ inspires me.
5. I'm most happy when I _am with my husband and our kids__ .
6. And all the roads we have to walk along are __Dirt really we live in the desert ___ .
7. As for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to _it being my last week of school for this month____ , tomorrow my plans include __delivering Avon and doing homework ___ and Sunday, I want to _relax and hangout with my family____ !
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Monday, October 22, 2007
BSM
This picture is one of my favorite. I took it the other night. this was Shelby's first ride on the quad with Kyle. She loved it. So cried when it got to dark for them to ride. Gabe has always loved to be on the quad with Kyle. Now he has to share it that time with his sister too.
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Thursday, October 18, 2007
Friday Fill In #42
1. October _is two months from December which means Christmas_____________.
2. ____Halloween_____ doesn't/don't scare me!
3. Haunted houses ___are scary_______.
4. My favorite scary movie is ___Texas chain saw massacre__________ because ______it is scary and my mom and i watched it when i was growing up_______.
5. ________just being _____ me.
6. It was a dark and stormy night __and I was in bed asleep______.
7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to _going out with my friends____, tomorrow my plans include _go to a county planing and zoning meeting____ and Sunday, I want to __go on a picnic with the family___!
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Tuesday, October 16, 2007
Phooson was a Blast.
Well to explain to the non-Arizona residents that read my blog phoenix and Tucson are about an hour or so apart in distance. I live in between both of them. A radio station(Kiss 104.7) that has a show that plays in both phoenix and Tucson put on a concert in Casa Grande and called it PHOOSON> A mix of Phoenix and Tucson.
We got to see Jordin Sparks,Enrique Iglesias, Fabolous , Ne-Yo,Jonas Brothers, Kat DeLuna, Paula DeAnda. Matt Leinart Allison DuBois, from the median.
Criss Angel the Mind freak was said to be there too but he never showed up until he came over the video screen with apologies of not being there he was working on a stunt in Las Vegas and couldn't get away.
It was a blast. We had a few drinks and had fun dancing around listening to great music. I have more pictures just have to get them uploaded at some point.
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Thursday, October 11, 2007
Friday Fill In

1. Once upon a time _I was free of worry__________.
2. _______kicking_,_ screaming and _____laughing__________.
3. _____Lipton_(?)____ white tea and ginger.
4. Way down ___South in Texas is where kyle's family lives__________.
5. Keys ___to my heart opens the ; locks __to my soul_____
6. Have you seen _Dick and Jane_______? They're so _Funny!
7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to __going to Phooson___, tomorrow my plans include _Going to Tucson to the races____ and Sunday, I want to stay home and watch movies with the family___!
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Monday, October 8, 2007
My Update for the week.
Well first off I hate my computer... I was writing a 750 word paper for school. I worked for 3 hours on it. And I went to save the last of it and when I hit save it disspeared off my screen. I spent 10 minutes trying to find it and all of the sudden it came up. I was relieved so I sent it in and got off the computer and left it alone for a while.
We went to the new safe-way on Friday. It is really big and we got alot of great deals. Kyle stopped and rented movies: the Ant Bully, Knocked Up and Collier and Co. And we got Pizza and had movie night.
We went to the Coolidge Cotton Day parade. It was so fun. It was Shelby's first parade every. She liked it. Then we went out on the quad and rode around.
Sunday we took the family out to an old abanded ranch house and watched the sun sat and then came home.
We had fun all weekend having time with the family and enjoying the nice cool weather we are having it has been in like the 70's and 80's all week.
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Thursday, October 4, 2007
Friday Fill in
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Questions this week are courtesy of Amy; thanks Amy!!!
1. If I were a tree I would be__an oak___ because_they are very strong____
2. If I were a bird I would fly over _to visit my mom _________
3. If I were a book I hope I would be __a great novel______
4. If I were a car I would be a ford______.
5. If I could get rid of one piece of technology it would definitely be _my cell phone___ because___some times it gets annoying___.
6. If I could get rid of one bad habit at a snap of the fingers it would be _having to be so picky some times_________
7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to _nothing____, tomorrow my plans include _relaxing at home____ and Sunday, I want to _hang out with the kids__!
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Wednesday, October 3, 2007
wordless wednesday

I know it should be wordless but one word does come to mind.... Priceless.
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Monday, October 1, 2007
Madness Monday
This week's questions are right off the top of my head; no rhyme or reason...
1. What was your biggest challenge this past week? was the stress of fighting with my hubby
2. What was your biggest accomplishment this past week? I was able to take 4 months off my college classes because I had 12 credits that transfered over from another college.
3. What was the most exciting thing that happened in your life this past week? We went out on the quads with some friends and had a blast.
4. What one thing made you the happiest this past week? My hubby and I have deiced twice a month to have date night.Should be fun.
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Saturday, September 29, 2007
Good News on my classes
I wiped out 4 months of my classes. I had 12 credit transfer over so it covers my sciences and electives. I am super excited about getting done earlier. That made it 14 months instead of 19 months.
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Friday, September 28, 2007
FRIDAY FILL IN
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1. I think it is time to go to sleep___.
2. I desire _ to be out of debt____.
3. What if _ pigs could fly____.
4. The best thing about __life is having kids___.
5. When will __my mom come to visit___.
6. The best thing that happened to me so far this week __I found out I get to graduate 4 months earlier then planned___.
7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to __hoping seeing my friend sam___, tomorrow my plans include _ going truck shopping with sam____ and Sunday, I want to _relax and have a few drinks____!
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Thursday, September 27, 2007
My Birthday
My birthday was on Tuesday the 25th. We went to the casino on Sunday to celebrate. Didn't win to much but had fun trying to. Then on Tuesday we went to the park and had pizza and cupcakes and ice cream. It was me and kyle and the kids and my grandma and then all of his family. We had fun. I will have pictures when I can get them off of my Sister in laws camera.
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Monday, September 24, 2007
BSM
Here is my BSM. Kyle and Gabe getting ready to head out for a ride on the quad. Gabe has asked all day to for a ride and he isn't really interested in mommy taking a picture.
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Friday, September 21, 2007
Friday Fill In
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1. I think _that money should grow on trees____.
2. I desire _to be rich_.
3. What if __I was taller__.
4. The best thing about _life is my kids____.
5. When will _time past___.
6. The best thing that happened to me so far this week _is my classes are paid for____.
7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to _hanging out with my famliy____, tomorrow my plans include __to do my homework___ and Sunday, I want to __win some money at the casino___!
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Thursday, September 20, 2007
Update On School
I am almost done with me 3rd week of school. I have gotten A's on all of my assignments. I am so proud of myself. Things are getting harder to do as the assignments are getting harder. I have 6 more weeks to go for these classes and then get to start back on the 4th of November.
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Wednesday, September 19, 2007
Wordless Wednesday
This explains it all. Just a sad face for a sad week. Just having a bad week.
http://wordlesswednesday.com/
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Monday, September 17, 2007
BSM

Here is my Best Shot Monday Picture. Shelby and Kyle are sleeping like babies. Kyle has always loved to cuddle with the kids like that and take naps.
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Taking a break.
Do to what has happened in the past week. Kyle and I have decided to take a break from TTC for at least the next 8 months or so. I thought on Saturday that I was having a miscarriage. Well I went to the hospital yesterday because the bleeding got worse and found out I have what they call Menorrhagia which is having a very heavy period. I was told by the doctor and even if we were trying to get pregnant that it wouldn't happen do the the fact that my body isn't working right. It isn't cleaning it's self out right every month.So over the weekend I was not feeling well and I also lost a close friend do a misunderstanding.
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